Mom has not been a happy camper these last few days. She’s been wanting me (Kim) to come home, has thrown stuff on the floor, and has even threatened to call the police so that they can get her out of there. Yes, you read that right…
I understand that she doesn’t want to be there. I actually spoke with her on the phone and told her that she is in the place that she needs to be in order for her to get well enough that she can go home. *** NOTE: That’s right – I DID speak to her on the phone. However, PLEASE do not take this as a sign that she’s open for phone calls. She is not. It’s still taxing and pretty difficult for her. If you want to visit her in person, that’s fine but a phone call is actually harder for her at this time. Here’s where I get mean… If I find out that anyone is calling her room over and over and trying to speak with her, I will put you on the banned list. This is about HER. NOT YOU.
Mom knows that I will be back tomorrow. She knows that we love her. She understands that she needs to stay there and keep working with her therapists. She begrudgingly agreed with me.
The good news though is that her speech is SO much better. She is speaking to me in complete sentences. She’s even talking a lot louder when she’s mad. This is actually her getting stronger. She’s pushing herself in therapy. I really hope that she is at the point that her anger is fueling her to push harder to keep working.
I also hope that she realizes that she’s in for a good scolding when I see her next. After I give her a hug, of course.
Kim, please let Sue know that I am thinking about her. I am so glad to hear that Sue’s speech is better. I cannot imagine how difficult this situation is, but I know Sue will battle to get better.
Sue, I am thinking about you every day.
Karin
Hi Kim, my name is Marylynn, I am a co worker and a friend of your mom, we miss her so much and so do her customers along with all the other customers of the shop who know your mom. Everyday we get calls and asked how Sueb is doing and can report what we can from your web site which is so appreciated and helpfull, we have given out the website to all who have a computer and can follow along, but many have asked for an address so they can send your mom a card to let her know they are thinking about her, if this is o.k. with you can you give me an address or post one on your site so they can send cards. If you think this isnt a good idea at this time, will understand, everyone is rooting for your mom and for your family, she is such a strong gal, miss you lots Sue thanks Marylynn
Hi Marylynn,
Please check out the new “What Can I Do?” page for more info (address and other tips). I’m sure she’d love to see you!
Kim
Hello Sweet Sue,
I am glad you are doing a bit better every day. I was very impressed by the firmness of your grip. Even the emergency workers smiled to see you holding onto my hand as I kept assuring you that you are going back to your own bed. I did not want to let go when I had to leave. But, I was relieved that the feeding tube issue was easily resolved.
I spent the long ride home thinking of you and praying for your continued strength. My plan to read a story to you that would make you laugh has been delayed. I will make a new plan to come and spend time with you. Thank you for smiling at me. I miss you so much. Please continue to get stronger. Love and hugs, Debbie